Getting [back] on track for 2011

You promised your spouse, children and most importantly yourself, this year would be different. You bought color-coded post-its, markers and a universal calendar; you took time between Christmas and New Year’s to plan the process out and a few unexpected “off-the-calendar” engagements have derailed your system. You have been in 2011 for less than 45 days and you’re already feeling defeated, ready to give up.

Not to fear, these are some simple, time-tested tips get you back on track.

1. Check your calendar first
Before you set the meeting, accept the invitation or volunteer to lead the committee, check your calendar first. There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying, “I have to check my calendar first.” The goal is to avoid double-booking, which costs additional time when you have to reschedule or send a regret.

2. Manage your time
You are in control of your time, do not let your time control you. It is okay to say, “no,” “not now,” or “maybe later” to some things. You do not have to do everything and be everywhere. Wonder Woman hung up her lasso in 1979.

3. Remember the necessities
Take time to breathe, eat and use the facilities. Every square on the calendar does not need to be filled. You want to avoid scheduling yourself so thin that you don’t have time to get proper rest, eat healthy meals or listen when nature calls.

4. Priorities set the agenda
Align your schedule with your professional and personal goals. Your top priorities should drive your schedule. If your goal is to blog more, then your schedule should reflect time for writing, or if your goal is to lose weight, then your schedule should show time to work out. If the activity or event doesn’t make the calendar, how important is it?

5. Go to your happy place
This will keep you sane in the midst of the storm. Make sure you have time for you, even if it is a walk to the corner where you can take a deep breath and visualize your happy place. These mini-mental vacations will reduce stress, lower blood pressure and bring a smile to your face.

6. Support local small businesses
Outsource those pesky time-consuming, tedious and non-essential jobs. You can hire people to do almost anything from dog walking and housecleaning to proofreading and design work. If hiring someone isn’t an option, consider bartering for services or sharing services with neighbor or colleague.

Remember what you told yourself, you can be organized, productive and still have a life…as long as you make time for it.


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25 Things To Do in the Dark

Over the last few weeks Twitter has been unpredictable with almost daily FailWhale sitings, and he is probably going to continue wreaking havoc as the World Cup and Wimbledon are now overlapping. Instead of obsessively refreshing HootSuite, TweetDeck, Seesmic or Twitter.com, consider any, some or all of the following as things you can do in the [Twitter] dark.

  1. return phone calls (yes, it is still a valuable communications tool)
  2. read and answer email
  3. sign up for a volunteer activity
  4. put in load of laundry
  5. listen to that archived webinar
  6. talk to your child(ren)
  7. go for a walk around the block
  8. read and comment on a couple of blogs
  9. eat lunch away from your desk
  10. call your Mom/Dad/brother/sister
  11. write the thank you note
  12. clean out your desk
  13. follow-up with the contacts from last week's networking event
  14. organize your bookmarks
  15. read the article s/he gave you last week
  16. write presentation and/or finish the proposal
  17. plan the lunch/dinner/party
  18. vacuum the family room
  19. clean out your in-box (some people still have those)
  20. order the _______ from ____________.com
  21. say a prayer or meditate
  22. write a blog post (or even two)
  23. make a donation
  24. reach out to an old acquaintance
  25. read the report, not just the summary

 

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